
Love Compatibility
Love
Compatibility
Compatibility is the natural alignment of two peoples
lifestyle choices and ideals. A youth minister and a drug dealer are unlikely
to get along and I doubt many of them end up dating. If I respect clever and
educated women and meet a high school dropout who is drawn to guys with large
biceps who like to hunt deer we have a fundamental difference that will almost
certainly never be addressed and we will never date. Not for long at least
Compatibility refers to two peoples long-term potential. Similar lifestyles and
values lead to a high level of compatibility. In general, educated liberals
prefer to date other educated and liberal individuals. Hedonists are attracted
to other hedonists. Religious nuts who date other religious nuts are usually
mad.
You will frequently worry if you are actually
compatible when you are initially starting out in a relationship or meeting
someone for the first time. It can be difficult to tell if you are compatible
with someone immediately away. You are usually putting your best foot forward
and the other person is probably doing the same. This can make determining
whether you are actually compatible or just pretending to be because you like
one other challenging. Even if you have been dating for a long time you will
want to make sure you are completely compatible before making a significant
commitment such as moving in together or marrying.
Areas
of Compatibility
Life priorities -
Where do you see yourself in the next five years for each of you? Is it better
to work your way up the corporate ladder or spend your days on a tropical
beach? Do you want to start a family and settle down or do you want to live a
carefree life?
Preferences – Are
there any things that you and your partner love doing together? Is one of you
okay with living in a dumpster and the other is a neat freak? Does one show up
on time for dates while the other is always two hours late?
Fundamental beliefs
Is one of you a career
scientist while the other is a conspiracy theorist who jumps from one idea to
the next?
Values
Our values are the source
of the majority (if not all) of the preceding. I have bad news for you if your
values do not match those of your significant other.
Favorite burrito taste
It all
comes down to burritos. Always.


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